In fact, they are probably trying hard to understand and make life easier for you already. Your parents probably know it's hard dealing with other kids and their assumptions about same-sex parents.This could create an opening to ask further questions. Try saying, 'I love you and I want to ask you about your relationship.' You could also just ask one or both of your parents to tell you how they met and became a family.They, better than anyone else probably, understand you and the situation. Tell them how you are feeling and ask them to help you if you are confused.However, it is your parents' job to teach you things and to help you with problems that you can't figure out on your own. Carrillo and Hoffman (2016) refer to their primarily urban. X Research source It can also be very difficult to be open and honest with your parents, especially if what you are going to ask them relates to sexuality. In doing so, he introduces a really interesting and catchy concept, bud-sex: Ward (2015) examines dudesex, a type of malemale sex that white, masculine, straight men in urban or military contexts frame as a way to bond and build masculinity with other, similar bros. Because gay families are not always formed in the same ways as straight families, it can be confusing. Ask them any questions you have about their relationship and how your family was formed.